Look at them sitting there on the floor, their boxes open like a nest of baby birds waiting to be fed. I’m moving. So is everything in my house that isn’t nailed down. That’s what happens when I sell one house and prepare to move to another. I’m moving. Ive considered myself somewhat of a minimalist. So, where’d all this stuff come from?
For those who want to catch up on the story so far, browse back through recent posts to learn more about my Tiny House experiment. This week’s update: inspections and an appraiser, and I don’t know how that story is going to proceed. I do know that my arms aren’t skinny enough to do some of the things that need to be done. More about that later; in the meantime, I apologize to the spiders I had to disturb.
Any minimalism I have is largely due to not having much as I grew up. I had more than my older brothers, but in retrospect, lots of the kids around us had a lot more. I was lucky, however, because my parents’ frugal ways meant I didn’t have to take out a loan to go to college. (And yes, it was a different era. $833/quarter, as I recall. I’m trying to remember if that included room and food.)
It didn’t take much to move me from Pittsburgh to Seattle. A chest of drawers. An old box spring metal frame for a bed. No other furniture except a door for a desk and a table held up by cinder blocks. Skip forward about three years, and it was handy having almost nothing because I moved back to college in Virginia (VPI&SU) for my Masters. Skip forward three years, and I’d finished that, got my job back (an epic and dramatic story), and actually bought a kitchen table and a living room set. Note: no bed, just a futon on the floor. I write all of that to pass along this. As I sold that house because I got married (temporarily), prospective buyers commented on the house being vacant – even before I packed up anything. Is that minimal enough?
Intervening years brought more furniture, but divide by two, and after my divorce, I was able to move with one truckload. Little has changed since then. But something has. Even as friends commented on how little I owned, somehow, I’ve accumulated 19 years of stuff. Maybe I finally have enough boxes, but oy! One storage unit filling on Whidbey Island. One storage unit in Port Townsend just leased, where I’m heading. And there’s still a house full of stuff.
Well, yes and no. I’ll spare you those details, but this move has been an incredible journey through accumulated history. It is hard to not have stuff. Maybe moving more often would help.
So, about those empty-mouthed boxes. They are mostly full, but waiting for a last few bits. These boxes have been more pivotal than most. They are art. Some are from my artistic friends, which I consider Art. None are pretentious pieces of ART. Most are my photos that I enjoy but easily drop into critique mode. That’s the nature of many artists. It was the boxing of the art that made the move visceral. It was seeing the bare walls without art on them. I hadn’t realized that without the art, my home was easier to describe as just a house.
With that many boxes, am I still a minimalist? I think so. I’ve been packing for weeks, amongst other things, of course. After all of those boxes and trips to the storage unit, donation sites, the recycle yards, and the dump, I still haven’t fundamentally changed the way I live. Boxes on boxes. Spiders dislodged. Dust, oy, dust! And I struggle to think of anything I’m missing. The DVD player is gone, so I miss that, but it was near the end of its useful life. Aside from that? Not much is missing from my core life.
As I sit here typing this post, I know that soon this chair will be donated. My tiny house is going to have a lot higher percentage of folding furniture. My 26″? TV/monitor would look out of place. I can see a microwave that will carry its rust into the dump. So, there will be changes; but, I’m realizing that what is in those boxes may stay there for years, even if I move to a larger place later in life.
Boxes of other authors’ books can be a casual drive from the tiny to the storage unit. Boxes of my books wouldn’t seem like much because all 18 books fit in less than half a box, but some of those books have dedicated boxes of background material, and presentation material for when I do talks and such. Unsold inventory will hopefully find a home, but many artists can paper their walls with yet-to-be-bought productions. There are also boxes of photos: personal and artistic and artistic-for-sale. I’m 65, so figure one box of memorabilia for every decade after turning ten. Family heirlooms are more passed around than passed down, and things that are too precious to trash and shuttled around hoping to find a home. And then there are the tools, hiking gear, bicycling gear, etc. Hopefully, they’ll get used after the move (which is within sight of Olympic National Park), but by simple bulk, they may have to live in storage – up front, preferably.
Lots of boxes.
But hardly any impact on my daily life.
I keep thinking about that.
One of the realities of any business transaction, and selling a house is a legal contractual ordeal, is that it is sometimes necessary to start over. Someone has to back out, or odd clauses surprise everyone, or interest rates change too much, etc. What would I have to do? Basically, nothing.
If this buyer has difficulties, my house would be back on the market, the boxes would be tidied up, I might re-arrange the storage unit, maybe buy a new DVD player (scandalous), but generally live as I live.
Stuff can own a person’s life. Things can pile up so high and deep that things get lost among the things. How many stuffed storage units are abandoned and forgotten about? They should have a show for that. (I know they do.) Every thing becomes one more thing to track and store. Another chore.
For me, this exercise has been a physical exercise (books and archival-framed wall art are heavy). It has also been a mental exercise. Go through the list of what, why, when, how for every piece. Move a lot and get through a lot. Move every other decade or so – and be glad I can get rid of things now, and to know why I have, what I have, how and when I got it, and whether I truly need it.
With that many boxes, am I still a minimalist? I think so, because my stuff doesn’t own me, and I know my stuff.
Tomorrow is a major hurdle. I’m prepared for a stumble, just in case. Much of modern real estate transactions is out of the direct control of the buyer and seller. I’ve been a real estate broker, and I am gladly not worrying those details by employing one a realtor. (Thank you, Gregory Young. I am So Glad I no longer have a job like yours. Besides, you’re better at it than I was.) And, just in case, I’ll live in a mostly empty house that lacks for little except for some art. Deciding what fits into the tiny house, well, that will definitely be a longer exercise. Stay tuned.























